Remember that game where you put a card with one word on your forehead and you had to guess what it said? You got all kinds of pretty random results.

Labeling yourself as just one word is like that too. Saying you're Loyal as a blanket across all areas of life can be a double- edged sword.

We love loyalty, but just deciding you're a loyal person without deciding what you're Loyal to, is like having a forehead card that says, 'I'm going to run a marathon'.

What marathon, where and when is it? You have to define it better or you're just going out for a run not knowing where it'll end up but hopefully somewhere good.

When you blanket loyalty, you're loyal to your God, family, health, work, hobbies, all the good stuff but you're also loyal to mistakes.

Is it okay to live under the umbrella of your mistakes for 20, 40, 70 years of your life because you're Loyal?

What if you looked at your loyalty differently? What if you wore a card that said, 'Loyal to my Personal Development and Mental Health'.

You could let go of that mistake because it doesn't match how you define yourself. You'd still be loyal, in fact you'd be an even better kind of loyal than you were before.

Get to know yourself really well and define who you are and how you wish to live.

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